Share Your Light

I did not write this but I loved it when I read it!

"This hit home for me!

When a flashlight grows dim or quits working, you don’t throw it away, you change the batteries.

When a person messes up and finds themselves in a dark place, do you cast them aside? Of course not, you help them change their batteries!

Some need AA... Attention and Affection;

Some need AAA... Attention, Affection, and Acceptance;

Some need C... Compassion;

Some need D... Direction.

And if they still don’t seem to shine... simply sit with them quietly and share your light."



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