Anxiety—It’s a Trauma Response

Anxiety Isn’t a Choice—It’s a Trauma Response (And Sometimes It Feels Like a Full-Time Job) Ah, anxiety. That uninvited house guest who shows up at the worst possible moments, like during a job interview, at a romantic dinner, or when you're trying to fall asleep. You didn’t choose it. You didn’t send it an RSVP. And yet, here it is, unpacking its bags and reminding you of every awkward thing you’ve ever said since 1997. Fun, right? Let’s clear something up from the start: Anxiety isn’t like picking out what toppings to put on your pizza. Nobody stands in the kitchen, going, “Hmm, should I have extra cheese or a full-blown panic attack about something that happened five years ago? Decisions, decisions!” No, anxiety isn’t a choice—it’s a trauma response, a survival mechanism that’s gone rogue, like a malfunctioning fire alarm that goes off when you’re just toasting bread. Trauma: The Gift That Keeps On Giving Trauma is like that one friend who still talks about their high school glo...