Mindfulness Practice

We’ve All Been There Moments of frustration, stress, or anger can leave us feeling on edge. While venting might seem like the easiest way to cope, reacting impulsively often leads to regret and strained relationships. So, how do you manage tension constructively? Here are 11 practical and healthy methods to help you stay calm and in control. 1. Tune In to Your Feelings The first step is self-awareness. Suppressing emotions can amplify stress. Pause to identify what you’re feeling—are you angry, anxious, or overwhelmed? By naming your emotions, you gain a sense of control and can address them with clarity. 2. Move Your Body Exercise is a proven stress-buster. Whether it’s a walk, yoga session, or quick household chores, physical activity releases tension and boosts endorphins. Even a short burst of movement can improve your mood significantly. 3. Breathe It Out Stress often disrupts breathing patterns, making them shallow. Restore calm with the 4-7-8 breathing technique: Inhale for 4 se...

Over the last few days, I’ve been thinking about what I want to achieve in 2025. Be more mindful. Eat healthier. Start intermittent fasting. Write more. Read more. Study towards becoming a mental wellness coach. Be a better teacher. Feel more comfortable in my own skin while working on my fitness. But here’s the thing: I’m waiting for Wednesday to start. When I eat a chocolate, I tell myself, “Better eat this now, because from Wednesday, there’s nothing.” Deep down, I know this isn’t the right mindset. So what is? Why Waiting for ‘The Right Time’ Doesn’t Work Like many of us, I’ve fallen into the trap of believing that change needs a grand starting point—a new year, a new week, or even a specific day like your birthday. It feels tidy, doesn’t it? But this “all or nothing” approach often sets us up for failure. The problem with waiting is that it creates a scarcity mindset: the idea that life will suddenly become restrictive or joyless once you begin. Worse still, it suggests that perfe...