Mindfulness Practice

  Most of us start the day already behind. I have to get up. I have to deal with this. I have to make it through. Those three words quietly load pressure onto everything. They make life sound like one long list of chores instead of a series of choices. Now swap them for something lighter: “I get to.” It changes everything. I get to wake up. I get to show up for work. I get to take care of people I love. Same reality, new energy. You’re no longer the one being pushed by life. You’re the one walking beside it. Why It Matters The way we talk to ourselves shapes how we feel. “I have to” closes the door on gratitude. “I get to” opens it again. It reminds us that even when things are hard, there’s still some choice, some meaning, some gift tucked inside the moment. It’s not about pretending the tough stuff is fun. It’s about seeing that there’s still purpose in the doing. A Simple Practice Catch yourself once today saying “I have to.” Pause for a second. Breathe. Then ...

  I used to think fasting was some sort of punishment. Like something only gym fanatics or monks did to prove a point. But it turns out, it’s less about control and more about awareness. When I’m fasting, I notice all the times I’d normally reach for food for no real reason. Bored? Snack. Tired? Snack. Someone irritated me? Snack again. When you take that option off the table, you suddenly have to sit with yourself. Not always fun, but surprisingly eye-opening. And when I do eat again, it feels different. I actually taste my food. I don’t crave junk anymore. My body feels lighter, and somehow I’ve got more energy than when I was eating every few hours. Go figure. Fasting sort of sneaks mindfulness in through the back door. It’s not about how long you can go without eating. It’s about paying attention — to your body, your habits, and that little voice that says “just one more biscuit.” Turns out, you don’t need another biscuit. You probably just need a glass of water and to tak...