Who Are You Actually Becoming?
Most of us never sit down and choose the kind of person we want to be. We just… drift. You pick up habits from your parents. You echo your friends without thinking. You react the same way you always have because it’s what you’ve always done. Before long, you’ve built a whole personality without ever really deciding if it’s yours. Here’s something worth knowing: the word identity comes from the Latin identitas , built from idem meaning “to be” and “repeated.” In other words, identity is about who you keep being over and over again. And that’s where the danger is. If you never stop to check in, you’ll just keep repeating the same patterns, not because they’re right for you but because they’re familiar. The type of person you are isn’t set in stone. Every day you’re shaping it in what you agree to, what you let slide, what you make time for, and how you behave when no one’s around to clap for you. So what would it look like if you chose on purpose? Not some perfect fantasy self. J...